ʻO ka ulu ʻana i ka mahiʻai e ulu ana i loko o nā keiki i ke ʻano kūʻokoʻa o ke kūʻokoʻa a me ke kuleana, ʻoiai ma lalo o ka maka maka o ko lākou mau mākua.
Puka mai kahi haumāna waena mai ka hale i ka mālamalama o ka wanaʻao, e ʻānai mau nei i ka hiamoe mai nā maka maka. ʻO kāna mau jeans, ka paʻa like āna i komo ai i nehinei, ʻoi aku ka lepo ma mua o ka denim a haʻuki i kahi lua volleyball-nui i ka kuli hema. ʻO kāna hoodie polū ʻānō i kēia manawa ke ānuenue o nā stain aila a me ka palolo, a ʻo ke kaʻe o kāna pāpale kinipōpō Red Sox i wili ʻia i loko o ka pūkana lio. Ua kīloi ʻo ia, auwē, a me nā ʻīlio hae i ka hapa hope loa o ka biscuit a kona makuahine i hāʻawi aku ai iā ia i kona puka i waho o ka puka. A laila hele ʻo ia i waho i ka huila ʻehā a hele i waho e hoʻonohonoho i nā paipu siphon i ke kahua beet.
I kēia manawa, ʻekolu mile ma ke ala, ke alo freckle, strawberry blond lua no ka mea a kā mākou kula nui ʻo Red Sox fan pines i hoʻolei aku ai i kāna pule hebedoma Keds no ka makemake o kekahi mau Muck kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe. Huki ʻo ia i ka huelo ma ke kua o kāna pāpale kinipōpō i hoʻowahāwahā ʻia me ka hou. Hoʻopiʻi ka puka o ka pale, a me ka ʻānai ʻana i kona mau lima no ka mahanahana, hele ʻo ia i waho i ka hale bipi e hōʻoia i ka pēpē Holsteins i waiho ʻia ma lalo o kāna mālama e loaʻa i ka ʻaina kakahiaka nui.
Ma ke kalana, piha haʻaheo kahi makahiki he 4 i ka noho hoa o kahi John Deere, hauʻoli loa i ka lilo ʻana o ke kakahiaka i ke kūlua ʻana i ka mauʻu huaʻai lua me Tūtū.
ʻElua mau kaikunāne, he 15 a me 12 mau makahiki, e kīʻē ana ma ke ala ʻauwai holoi, e namunamu ana no ka hoʻomaha loa ʻana o Dodge (ʻelua mau leo). ʻOiai noho paʻa lākou ma ka lalo o ka pou totulate o nā wahi kaʻa a me nā ʻoihana, ʻike lākou i ka hōʻoluʻolu i ka hōʻoia ʻana e ʻeli nā keiki i hiki iā lākou ke kalai lāʻau, no laila e uku ʻia kēia i kekahi lā.
ʻO kēlā me kēia kahi hiʻohiʻona i ʻike ʻia ma ka ʻāina mahiʻai. Mai ka manawa e aʻo ai nā keiki mahiʻai pehea e hele wāwae ai, aia ka hapa nui o lākou e kokoke ana iā Māmā a me Pāpā paha, ke aʻo ʻana i nā kaula, ka ʻai ʻana i ka lepo, a me ka manaʻolana ʻaʻole e hana hou i nā huaʻōlelo cuss he nui loa. ʻO Heck, ua lohe mua wau e pili ana i kahi makuahine e ʻūʻū ana i kahi anuanu me nā ʻōmole piha i ka waiū a hoʻopaʻa i kahi kaʻa pēpē pēpē i loko o kahi kalaka 10-huila no ka mea ʻo kahi o nā mea hoʻokele manawa o ka hōʻiliʻili e pono ai i ka manawa hope.
No nā ʻohana mahiʻai, lawe mai i kāu keiki i ka lā hana, ʻaʻole hoʻokahi wale nō huinahalike ma ka kalena; kokoke ia i kēlā me kēia lā. A ʻaʻole wale nā keiki e pōmaikaʻi iā ia. No ka pololei, ʻo ka nui o nā ʻoihana mahiʻai e lilo i kahawai inā ʻaʻole hele mai nā keiki e hana me ko lākou mau mākua ma kahi manawa maʻamau.
ʻ grhumu paha nā kamaliʻi e pili ana i ka hana ke hele a makua (maopopo iaʻu). Akā ke kū nei lākou ke kahiko (e like, e ʻōlelo, 20), kau ʻia kahi mahalo aloha i loko o ko lākou mau puʻuwai no ke aʻo maoli ʻana i loaʻa iā lākou i ko lākou mau makahiki formative.
ʻO ka ulu ʻana i ka mahiʻai e ulu ana i loko o nā keiki i ke ʻano kūʻokoʻa o ke kūʻokoʻa a me ke kuleana, ʻoiai ma lalo o ka maka maka o ko lākou mau mākua.
ʻO wau ka manaʻo hilinaʻi ʻole e pono i kēlā me kēia mea o ka honua e loaʻa kahi hana pōʻino a i ʻole ʻelua paha i ko lākou ola. I kēia manawa, ʻaʻole wau manaʻo inā ʻoe e hana i kahi me kahi luna hoʻomāinoino a i ʻole kahi e hoʻowahāwahā ʻia nā manaʻo āpau āu e haʻi ai, pono ʻoe e pili a aʻo wale i kahi haʻawina abstract e pili ana i nā kīkēkē paʻakikī. Akā he waiwai hiki ʻole ke hōʻole ʻia, no ke kanaka ʻōpio i ka hoʻi ʻana mai i ka hale i ka pō a aneane luhi loa e kū i ka ʻauʻau a kāwele i ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni a me ka lepo mai kona mau lima.
E haʻi ʻia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hana mau ia e like me kēlā kahi i hoʻopaʻa ʻia ai nā hoa aloha ikaika loa a hana ʻia nā mea aloha nui loa. Ke neʻe nei paha i nā laina lima a i ʻole ke kūkulu ʻana i nā ʻōpala palaoa, nā papa busing a i ʻole nā papahele mopping, ka weuweu ʻana i nā moena pua a i ʻole ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻana i nā kapeta, ʻaʻole hiki ke loaʻa kēlā wahi hana ma kahi résumé. Mākaukau nā ʻohana mahiʻai e hāʻawi i nā manawa kūpono i kā lākou keiki, ʻaoʻao a me ka poʻe hana hana nui a lākou e loaʻa: ko lākou ʻiʻo a me ke koko ponoʻī.
ʻO ka ulu ʻana i ka mahiʻai e ulu ana i loko o nā keiki i ke ʻano kūʻokoʻa o ke kūʻokoʻa a me ke kuleana, ʻoiai lākou e lilo i ka nui o kā lākou manawa ma lalo o ka maka maka o ko lākou mau mākua ma mua o kā kā lākou mau hoa. ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu inā he nui aku ka hōʻaiʻē e hele i nā mākua mahiʻai a i ka mahiʻai ponoʻī paha, akā aia nō ke ʻano. He pōmaikaʻi nui ma hope o ke ola e aʻo ai i ka wā ʻōpio e like me nā haʻawina e like me:
- I kekahi manawa pono e hana i nā mea, inā makemake ʻoe e hana a ʻaʻole paha;
- E lawe mau ana ke aupuni i kahi ʻāpana o kāu uku;
- ʻAʻole maikaʻi nā hana ʻoluʻolu ʻole i ka lewa anuanu ma mua o ka lā aloha ʻole;
- He mea ʻole ia i ka manaʻo o ka poʻe ʻē aʻe o ka honua i kāu ʻoihana; a, ʻo ka mea nui paha,
- ʻEli maoli nā Chicks i nā kāne hiki ke hoʻokele i kahi lāʻau.
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